Thursday, April 16, 2009

回忆

回忆

如果是痛苦的, 为什么还要忆起??
如果是美好的, 为什么会忘记??

我们总是记得痛苦的, 很少... 很少... 会记得开心的,忘记痛苦的...

人.. 总是不满足现况...

学会放手, 学会放开
才会得到真正的自由

若手握紧,我们拿到的只是拳头那么多
若手放开,我们拿到的是天空那么宽...

忽然间的有感而写....

2 comments:

iamenwan said...

对啊!几乎人人都会记得痛苦的回忆,可是快乐的回忆好像很快就不见了~~

记住痛苦的回忆是因为往往它们都很刻骨的被记载着,忘记快乐的回忆是因为我们把快乐认定是我们应该得到的,所以并不会去珍惜它~~

但,等到我们不再得到快乐的回忆时,我们才会明白说其实快乐回忆是很难得的~~

放开吗??不容易吧!人往往都会把自己拥有的一切紧紧地握着,不管风吹雨打也不会放手……

可能是因为这样,有些人才会活得如此的痛苦吧!!

Anonymous said...

this is what i thought of when i write this post.. we do remember the happy moments but most of the time we recall the bad moments. maybe as u said, sometimes we take it for granted... that is why it is not appreciated.. but today we have a choice whether to make this same mistake again or we say to ourselves that we will treasure every joyful moment..

yes.. it is not easy to let go.. not easy, doesn't mean impossible. that is why we need to learn to let go.. but there are some cases that people willing to let go and they got even more..so, they live happier than those who grab so hard..

when u release something, u are not losing it.. u are actually giving urself a bigger space to accept a better new thing:)

jia you ba, en wan!!!

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