Wednesday, February 27, 2008

life...parents.. family

Recently i watched a Hong Kong drama series.. it talks bout becoming a daddy is not easy.. lots of responsibilty and lots to care.. i like one of the phrase, a person's riches doesn't depend on how much money he or she has but depend on how many family members and frens turn up during ur day.. it makes me feel so guilty towards my parents.. actually, we(4 of us) hardly spent time with our parents. they are always too busy.. busy with work, busy with this and that.. i understand that they are so busy because of us.. but sometimes in the middle of night, how i wish my parents were there in my younger time. i realise a phenomenon in my family.. we dun talk to our parents about wat problems we are facing.. we are trained in a way to be independent. we dun feel proud of our achievements. the other day, my sis get 3.92 in the uni.. wow, im so happy for her and so proud of her.. but then she was doubting should she tells my parents.. u see.. getting a good result is like a compulsory thing.. i wished my parents would praise me just few sentence i will be more than enough..how i wish to be like my fren.. able to chat with their parents and their parents know about her.. like wat frens she hangs out, what is her hobbies and so on..


when we have something, we want another.. my parents give me freedom.. they trusted me that i wont violate it.. actually, im grateful to my parents.. because they really love me.. they din me in the ways tat i want but i know they tried to love me with wat they think the best.. they give me the best.. in terms financially, i never lacked.. we seldom talk but i know they hope they have time for me.. so much to thank them but sometimes word of appreciation just so hard to say..i would like to take this time to say to my dad and my mom... dad, mom.. you are the best in my life. thanks for being the best parents in the world.. thanks for being to loving to one another and the love commitment between u both really admire me..thanks for providing a complete family, love shelter to me.i love you so much...

not forgeting my wonderful elder sister, mandy.. she is my role model, my motivator to become better.. my younger brother, melvin who is always so sweet, so gentlemen.. helping me and protecting me.. and my beloved youngest sister, manda. though we always argue, but she is pretty, and lovable.. thank you my God for your gifts to me.. u give me the best..

1 comment:

Unknown said...

One thing about parenting. There is always not enough. There's a Chinese saying, "Yang Er Yi Bai Sui, Dan You Jiu Shi Jiu." Parents raise us until 100 years old but they worry about us for 99 years. Home is the basic unit for happiness. When a child is raised with love under the roof, he/she will grow up contribute to the world. As i believe, parents are the first key to better tomorrow.

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